Ashley Madison reviews

I actually liked it — started using it last month; first impression was messy profiles, but matches came fast and mostly work.

I almost didn’t order, worried it was all fake profiles and a waste — but I use it every morning now for quick check-ins, it’s simple, reliable and my doubts faded, honestly.

Halfway through scrolling I sighed — app felt sticky and cheap, only two decent matches and one asked for money, ugh.

lots of sketchy profiles, constant prompts to buy credits, doubts didn't go away, layout okay.

Halfway through a sketchy exchange I almost bailed, but when the rep followed up and resolved it cleanly (unlike a couple other firms), I finally felt genuinely satisfied today.

Started poking around last month, curiosity; first impression was slick, but it feels like credits vanish when you talk to the same person. Mostly spammy replies from folks chasing money. Support never picked up, though one match surprised me.

Sat on the couch certain this was a scam, but after a messy first chat it actually felt real — profiles seemed human and the convo flowed. Had bad experiences elsewhere, so I stayed wary, but honestly, pretty relieved it wasn’t another rip-off.

annoying. I messaged support and, surprisingly, they answered fast and explained what happened. Delivery of that reply was quick. Still a bit wary, but customer service actually surprised me today too.

I hesitated for a while — been burned by other sites, actually — but paid 169 for a month of credits. Day two they were gone and I freaked, but support actually sorted a partial refund fast, which was a nice surprise, so mixed feelings.

company accounts seemed to send fake favourites to make you open paid chats, which drained credits fast. My first impression was positive, turned into disappointment.

I spotted it on my buddy's phone at a BBQ and laughed — seemed sketchy, but I paid $85 out of curiosity. Couldn't do much without more cash, deleted same day, refund denied. Not happy, but I'm wiser.

Halfway through my third week using the app on morning commutes I was pretty doubtful — lots of noise and a few sketchy profiles at first. After tightening filters and trying evenings and lunch breaks it started to work. Feels solid in daily use, quick to navigate, not flawless but pleasantly surprised, and fits my routine.

sent a few very short messages and the balance disappeared quickly, about seven messages and then nothing. I also got an odd email about a message that didn't exist and support didn't reply. Kinda disappointed, really, still annoyed.

I wasn't expecting much, honestly — I logged in on a quiet weeknight and thought, here we go. Account got banned out of nowhere, no clear reason, which was annoying. At first support was MIA, no replies for days and it felt like shouting into a void. After nagging them a bit they finally came back and said it was an automated flag; they reinstated me and apologized. So, relieved and grateful it's fixed, but the whole process was sloppy. The site itself feels stuck in the past, same small pool of profiles and clunky search/navigation. If you're thinking of paying, check support response times and don't expect a modern experience, really.

Not great at first, but ended up working out. I was pretty sure half the profiles were fake — they push you to move to WhatsApp like it’s urgent — super sketchy. I use the app on my commute and evenings to meet people casually, so I stayed cautious, reported a few, and somehow met someone real after a couple weeks. Skeptical turned pleasantly surprised.

I can point to the exact second I was actually satisfied with the whole thing — when I tapped delete account instead of sending a selfie or my driver's licence. It felt oddly freeing, like I dodged a hassle. The app asking for government ID right after signup was the last straw; they suspend you first, then demand proof. I’m fine not playing that game. Also the profiles felt thin, mostly generic guys, kind of meh. So yeah, my satisfaction came from leaving, not using it. If you're on the fence, consider that you don't owe any site your ID, and that a clean exit can feel better than staying for a few sketchy matches. More privacy, fewer bots, please, seriously.

I saw the app on a buddy's phone years ago and signed up out of curiosity. Been using it on and off since. It sometimes delivers a decent chat. More often it feels like housecleaning — lots of profiles that don't lead anywhere. I only buy the basic credits. That part works fine. Buying is quick and uncomplicated. Customer support is hit-and-miss. I had one billing question and it took a few days to get a reply, and the answer was bland but solved it eventually. Delivery of actual meetups? Rare. A couple of talks looked promising and then fizzled. I told a coworker about it once; they tried it and quickly stopped. Discounts keep pulling me back now and then. Not perfect, not a scam in my view, just inconsistent. For what I pay I get some entertainment value and occasional contact. If you want reliability or fast support, temper your expectations.

they repeat the same question, resend similar pics from different accounts, or come from the same neighbourhood three times over. When someone actually seems real, it’s surprisingly fun — which makes the rest feel even more annoying. I’ve used other services where messages felt more genuine and you didn’t have to ration replies so much. Also annoying: folks will start out super forward and graphic, then expect you to spend time “getting to know” them within a tiny 200-character reply window. So you’re stuck cutting things short or spending more credits. Overall it worked occasionally, but mostly it felt like paying to chat with bots and recycled accounts. Mildly entertaining in bursts, but not worth the steady drain if you’re looking for something real.

the interface is easy to use, I’ll give it that.

the better your listing looks, the better your chances, and that’s oddly satisfying. Making our profile felt fun. We described what we like, what we definitely didn’t want, and a few small personal flourishes so people could tell we were, you know, actual people. That little bit of personality made a huge difference. It’s nice when someone reads that and writes back with a thoughtful message instead of a one-liner. Those one-liners — they almost always bounce. You’ll find that fast.
What I liked best was how the app lets you control the pacing. You can be casual, you can be meticulous. We liked starting with messages that showed we read someone’s profile, then moving to a secure chat app once there was a clear vibe. Signal is my go-to suggestion — you can use a username and keep your number private until you’re sure. Safety matters a lot, and the platform gives you tools to block or report quickly. We used them a few times and it felt reassuring to have that button handy. Speaking of safety, beware of anything that seems like it’s too easy or overly eager without context — scammers do exist, and there were a few profiles that made us raise an eyebrow. We learned pretty quickly to trust our gut, not to send money or personal info, and to keep things local until a few checks were done. It’s not perfect, but you can make it very safe if you’re careful.
Messaging rhythm is the thing that surprised me. There’s a window where replies matter — some people respond immediately and some take days — and if you miss that quick window, you’re basically starting over. So we started checking mornings and evenings, catching new posts, and replying fast when someone interesting popped up. That little bit of timing strategy changed our whole experience. Also, don’t underestimate writing a real paragraph. If you want meaningful conversations, say something that reflects their interests. Men who just send a picture or a line? They get ignored. And honestly, as a couple, we appreciated guys who respected boundaries and didn’t push too hard. That counts for a lot.
Another small positive: the site’s filters let you narrow things down so you’re not drowning. Use them. We set our searches tight first, then slowly broadened. It saved time. There were frustrating moments — like the flood of messages you get in the first day after a post goes up — but that’s more a reality of demand than a flaw. If you want to increase your odds, be descriptive, be respectful, and be quick. It’s a little bit of work, but the payoff is real. We had good conversations turn into coffee, then more, then great experiences. It felt human, not transactional, once we put in that effort.
If you’ve tried similar services and left disappointed, give this a proper shot with a decent profile and some patience. If you’re new, don’t expect overnight magic. Plan a couple of months, set a routine, be mindful and you’ll get better results. There’s room for fun here, and if you approach it like talking to real people — with respect, curiosity, and a little personality — it actually feels pretty rewarding. We’re still using it now; it’s part of our routine, and honestly it feels more like a tool than a wild gamble.