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Unexpectedly useful, once you figure it out

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"the better your listing looks, the better your chances, and that’s oddly satisfying. Making our profile felt fun. We described what we like, what w..."

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Feeding the machine, slowly

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"they repeat the same question, resend similar pics from different accounts, or come from the same neighbourhood three times over. When someone actu..."

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Feeding the machine, slowly

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keshaun

6 reviews

5.0
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No

they repeat the same question, resend similar pics from different accounts, or come from the same neighbourhood three times over. When someone actually seems real, it’s surprisingly fun — which makes the rest feel even more annoying. I’ve used other services where messages felt more genuine and you didn’t have to ration replies so much. Also annoying: folks will start out super forward and graphic, then expect you to spend time “getting to know” them within a tiny 200-character reply window. So you’re stuck cutting things short or spending more credits. Overall it worked occasionally, but mostly it felt like paying to chat with bots and recycled accounts. Mildly entertaining in bursts, but not worth the steady drain if you’re looking for something real.

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Unexpectedly useful, once you figure it out

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J. Homenick

1 reviews

9.0
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Would buy here again
Yes

the better your listing looks, the better your chances, and that’s oddly satisfying. Making our profile felt fun. We described what we like, what we definitely didn’t want, and a few small personal flourishes so people could tell we were, you know, actual people. That little bit of personality made a huge difference. It’s nice when someone reads that and writes back with a thoughtful message instead of a one-liner. Those one-liners — they almost always bounce. You’ll find that fast.
What I liked best was how the app lets you control the pacing. You can be casual, you can be meticulous. We liked starting with messages that showed we read someone’s profile, then moving to a secure chat app once there was a clear vibe. Signal is my go-to suggestion — you can use a username and keep your number private until you’re sure. Safety matters a lot, and the platform gives you tools to block or report quickly. We used them a few times and it felt reassuring to have that button handy. Speaking of safety, beware of anything that seems like it’s too easy or overly eager without context — scammers do exist, and there were a few profiles that made us raise an eyebrow. We learned pretty quickly to trust our gut, not to send money or personal info, and to keep things local until a few checks were done. It’s not perfect, but you can make it very safe if you’re careful.
Messaging rhythm is the thing that surprised me. There’s a window where replies matter — some people respond immediately and some take days — and if you miss that quick window, you’re basically starting over. So we started checking mornings and evenings, catching new posts, and replying fast when someone interesting popped up. That little bit of timing strategy changed our whole experience. Also, don’t underestimate writing a real paragraph. If you want meaningful conversations, say something that reflects their interests. Men who just send a picture or a line? They get ignored. And honestly, as a couple, we appreciated guys who respected boundaries and didn’t push too hard. That counts for a lot.
Another small positive: the site’s filters let you narrow things down so you’re not drowning. Use them. We set our searches tight first, then slowly broadened. It saved time. There were frustrating moments — like the flood of messages you get in the first day after a post goes up — but that’s more a reality of demand than a flaw. If you want to increase your odds, be descriptive, be respectful, and be quick. It’s a little bit of work, but the payoff is real. We had good conversations turn into coffee, then more, then great experiences. It felt human, not transactional, once we put in that effort.
If you’ve tried similar services and left disappointed, give this a proper shot with a decent profile and some patience. If you’re new, don’t expect overnight magic. Plan a couple of months, set a routine, be mindful and you’ll get better results. There’s room for fun here, and if you approach it like talking to real people — with respect, curiosity, and a little personality — it actually feels pretty rewarding. We’re still using it now; it’s part of our routine, and honestly it feels more like a tool than a wild gamble.

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10.0
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8.0
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8.0
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Sketchy online hookup site

D
dianna

8 reviews

3.5
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Would buy here again
No

Let me tell ya, this site is totally sketchy. I signed up, bought some credits, and thought I could actually chat with people. But turns out, it's all a scam. They kept asking for more money after just a few messages. And don't even get me started on their so-called customer service number - nobody ever answers! Do yourself a favor and steer clear of this shady online hookup site.

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6.0
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4.0
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2.0
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2.0

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Married dating app

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Lillie Williamson

1 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

Just your regular ol' experience, nothing out of this world. The app was pretty easy to figure out, but I did have some issues with navigating it at times. Signing up was fairly easy, but it did take me a few tries to get it right. Overall, the service was decent, nothing to write home about but also nothing to get worked up over.

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6.0
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6.0
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online dating service

J
Jordan

7 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

As someone who's used this online dating site, I gotta say I'm pretty let down with how things went. There are just way too many profiles that seem fake, which makes me feel like I'm being lied to and wasting my time. The chats with these profiles feel super fake and like they're just going through the motions, so I can't really connect with anyone for real. It seems like the site is more focused on getting people to buy more credits instead of helping us actually find meaningful connections. Basically, this service isn't living up to its promises and isn't giving customers the experience they deserve.

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6.0
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6.0
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6.0
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Secret rendezvous services

C
charles

11 reviews

8.5
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Would buy here again
Yes

Eh, so, I gotta say, this website is kinda like a hidden gem for folks who wanna shake things up a bit outside of their relationship, ya know? It's all hush-hush and super easy to use, so you can chat with people who are on the same page as you. There's a ton of profiles to check out, and the privacy stuff is top-notch, so you can feel good about your info being secure. Whether you're after a steamy affair or just some laid-back fun, this site has got you covered. Just make sure to be clear about your boundaries and always put safety first, eh?

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8.0
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10.0
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8.0
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8.0

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Quick waste of time

S
Schulist

23 reviews

3.5
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Would buy here again
No

This website was such a letdown. I really should have paid more attention to the reviews because they were totally right. The profiles are so obviously fake, and those bots are just plain ridiculous. It's such a waste of time and money. I can't believe I ever bothered signing up for this.

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6.0
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4.0
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2.0
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2.0

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Tokens for Messaging

C
Clyde

4 reviews

3.0
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Would buy here again
No

This website is seriously ridiculous. It's full of scammers and women just pushing their OnlyFans. They're constantly charging you for every little thing, even just asking for photos. I spent way too many tokens just to send one message, and then got charged again when I tried to reply. It's all about making money and not worth the trouble.

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4.0
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4.0
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2.0
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2.0

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Credit system, fake profiles

J
J. Bins

4 reviews

5.5
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Would buy here again
No

Eh, this website is just full of fake profiles set up by the company to trick ya into spending more moolah. If I had checked out the reviews first, I definitely wouldn't have bought anything. The whole credit system they got going on is confusing and seems like they want ya to keep spending without telling ya how much it's gonna cost.

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6.0
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6.0
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4.0
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6.0

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Fake profiles and scam alerts

T
Taryn

9 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

I heard about this site called BLANK, supposedly for meeting cool people, but it's a total joke. The profiles are faker than my little brother's excuses for not doing his homework. I've been on there for what feels like forever and still haven't met a real person. And don't even get me started on the alerts - I get a notification every time the same two profiles log on. It's like they think I'm stupid or something. Oh, and get this, I made a second profile just for fun, and people were messaging it even though they hadn't logged on. Pretty sketchy, right? And the best part is, I haven't even paid them a single penny. I mean, seriously, who falls for that kind of nonsense? It's like they think I was born yesterday, but I'm more like, born 10 years ago. LOL.

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6.0
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6.0
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6.0
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200 personalized messages sent, no replies

L
Lucius Dietrich

1 reviews

3.5
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Would buy here again
No

Don't bother spending your money on this site, eh. It used to be good, but now it's just a bot factory that sucks up your credits without giving you any real results. Save your money and try somewhere else for a better experience, eh.

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6.0
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4.0
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2.0
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2.0

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Expensive and outdated listings

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Anne Fisher

1 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

The listings on here are ancient, it's like half of the people are ghosts or something. And you gotta fork over all this cash just to see a picture? Seriously, what's the deal with that? And let's not even get me going on the whole "credits" scheme, that's just plain crazy. You spend all this money to talk to someone and then they ask for even more credits? It's a total rip off, don't bother.

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6.0
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6.0
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6.0
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Jerks and losers

A
assunta

9 reviews

4.5
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Would buy here again
No

My time on this platform has been really disappointing, eh. I was hoping to meet someone good-looking, successful, emotionally balanced, and good in bed. But, it didn't turn out the way I wanted, eh. Most of the guys I met were rude, self-centered, and just plain rude, eh. It was sad to see how many people on this platform treated me like I was only there to satisfy their own needs, eh.

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6.0
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4.0
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4.0
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4.0

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Credits for messaging

F
F. Thompson

2 reviews

5.0
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Would buy here again
No

I was pretty bummed about how the credit system works on this site, eh. It's annoying to figure out that you need credits just to send a message, and then to realize that you gotta keep buying more if you wanna keep chatting with the same person. The pricing seems kinda sneaky and makes it tough to make connections without always shelling out dough, you know?

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6.0
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4.0
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4.0
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Wasting money on useless site

Y
Yasmin

8 reviews

5.5
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Would buy here again
No

This website is a total money pit. Save your cash and don't bother signing up. It's basically throwing money down the drain for no good reason. Barely anyone chats and the conversations that do happen are pretty boring. The prices are ridiculous considering what you get in return. If I could rate it lower, this site would definitely be in negative territory.

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6.0
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6.0
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4.0
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One-night stand hookup platform

H
Hailey

12 reviews

7.5
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Would buy here again
Yes

Eh, if you're just wanting a casual thing with no commitments, this is the spot for you, ya know? Yeah, there's some fake profiles and people just looking to cash in, but that's par for the course on these sites, eh? You just gotta be careful and trust your gut. And hey, the site is easy to use and the search filters help you find what you're looking for. All in all, it's not a bad choice if you're after something laid-back, eh.

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8.0
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8.0
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6.0
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8.0

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Online dating platform experience

B
bill

8 reviews

5.0
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Would buy here again
No

My time on that online dating site was a letdown. I came across a few real profiles, but most seemed fake. When I chatted with some of them, it was pretty clear they were either automated or run by people working for the company.

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6.0
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6.0
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4.0
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Online dating subscription

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Franz Raynor

1 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

I was so let down by that online dating subscription I bought. The profiles seemed fake, the messages felt automated, and I even got hit with double charges on my credit card. Even though people were saying the service was legit, my own experience showed the opposite. I had to reach out to customer support to fix those wrong charges on my credit card. All in all, I wouldn't rely on that online dating service.

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Account suspended unfairly

E
Enid

10 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

My account got suspended just a day after signing up, but they didn't say why. I hadn't even talked to anyone or posted anything bad on my profile. I tried asking customer service what happened, but they didn't really tell me anything useful. I just want them to delete my pictures now, and I won't be going back to this site. It was all very weird.

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6.0
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6.0
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Waste of money

O
Olga

10 reviews

6.0
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Would buy here again
No

Eh, so I signed up for this site thinking I was gonna meet some cool people, but it's a total waste of time. Most of the folks on there never chat back, and I think they're fake or something. Plus, they sneakily take your money without asking, and you don't even get anything in return. It's like a big ol' scam, so don't bother with it, eh.

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About Ashley Madison

Ashley Madison is an online dating service and social networking service targeted towards individuals who are married or in relationships. Based in Canada, the company was launched in 2002 with the slogan "Life is short. Have an affair." It was designed to offer a discreet platform for people seeking to have extramarital relationships. Ashley Madison gained global attention in 2015 following a data breach that exposed the personal details of millions of its users. Despite the controversy, the company has continued to operate and serves millions of users worldwide, promoting itself as a platform for consensual non-monogamy, affairs, and discreet encounters.

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